Who makes the rules?!

How many times have you heard "You know what they say, if you sleep with a guy on the first date, he'll think you're easy..."? Who are "They"?!
They said never kiss and tell-- let me know who They are because I will tell everyone except They.

When we date people, we put a thick layer of foundation over ourselves to conceal our true being. We don't want the new person running off because a dark spot made its way to the light, so we allow our representative to take charge for a few months and build our real being up, because we don't want to let They down.

You know what I say? To hell with the representatives!!! We should fire them and become entrepenuers. If you're dating someone and you want them to become your stability, be yourself. Whatever happens in the dark will come to light. Why hide that blemish when that is what makes you, you? I learned, if you're upfront and honest from the begining, you can only walk an easy road from here on out. We get hurt when we find out we've been lied to, so let's not be the one who's doing the hurting. Look, if someone won't accept you for who you are and what you're about, just say TO HELL WITH YOU!

We do not need to follow a book of "Do's and Dont's" in order to snatch & maintain a stable relationship. In this world, I believe, there is someone for everyone. Be who you are and wait for yours. Relationships isn't a game and even though relationships are much more complicated now than how they were in the 1800's, who are They to tell us how to run things?
*in a Cartman (character from South Park) tone*
WHATEVA! I DO WHAT I WANT!!!
THEY CAN GO TO HELL

Moral of this story:
Be yourself and don't follow the "society" way of getting/keeping a man.